It also produces The Silver Bulletin. It maytake some overcoming yet the time to begin is now-send the fire, the Spirit and Scripture looked at anew and allow God to be God. The noble ambitions fell further apart in subsequent decades as Darby's adherents squabbled over how to interpret and enforce his ideas, leading to a separatist, insular system as controlling as any cult. But there were no "worldly" friends over to play, no going to the worldly kids' parties, no overnight school camps, no inter-school sports. It was organised through Universal Business Team (UBT), a business . You can't ever really escape a Brethren upbringing. Sociologically the movement has many cult-like elements as well. The men must have short hair, be clean shaven and are prohibited from wearing ties. According to Statistics New Zealand there were 20,406 Brethren in New Zealand in 2001. A shell company of that name has already been set up here, reportedly to help the church hire its own without relying on "worldly people" "There were real pissheads in there: they drink heaps, it's the only thing you're allowed to do." I didn't want to leave but it seemed inevitable, and the longer I waited the more collateral damage I would cause. Old gospel songs trigger something deep inside even though I've long since stopped believing the words. Pastorlink was established by and for Brethren pastors. The Exclusive Brethren are a subset of the Christian evangelical movement generally described as the Plymouth Brethren. Minding their business * Fewer than 2000 Exclusive Brethren New Zealanders We're an easy target. One of your four brothers gets married, but of course you're not invited to the wedding. So many, many tears, streaming over blackboards and permanent ink. Over the past two years, Thompson and Clark has conducted hundreds of hours of surveillance on former members who have criticised the cult-like church. A cult-like church that exerts almost complete control over its members has metastasised into a multinational corporation with massive buying power. They are not allowed to form friendships with people outside the church, who are known as 'worldlies'. Note that the version at the Internet Archive is, at times, slow to open and that not all internal links may work. No member is allowed to eat in the same room as a worldly person, they are forbidden from owning a pet and they are restricted from socialising with anyone outside of the Exclusive Brethren. Later, while working as a senior reporter for Stuff, I explored issues such as prisoner mistreatment, cannabis reform, and just where all the forks were going from our newsroom kitchen. Dargaville also has a well-established Brethren community with a big business presence. I love being a journalist and wouldn't trade it for anything. She also volunteered to take me out for a drink "and tell you all about how much more fun it is being an evil outsider or whatever the heck those loonies call us". My parents threw me out of their house, waiting until I was away one weekend before dumping my belongings in a storage unit and telling me I could collect the key. However, staying out of UBT made it easier for him to eventually leave the church, he agreed. Separate Lives [Transcripts | Video] An edition of the Four Corners investigative journalism TV program of the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. Bulk purchasing power is smart business - but according to former members, Brethren were not really "free to choose". Apologetics Index curates research resources on religious movements, cults, sects, world religions and related issues. Within this site you will find explanations, stories, history and Exclusive Brethren memorabilia ranging from the quaint to the shocking. In tears that evening I finally broke, but even then I couldn't bring myself to say the words. I knew I was breaking her heart, but had no choice. The term exclusive was applied because these brethren maintained that it was essential for those who believed in the Truth to separate from all others, and to admit to their breaking of bread only those who agreed in all doctrinal matters, and who subjected themselves to the same social and moral discipline. Although some run computer businesses, the technology is frowned upon for private use because it has the power to employ the satanic number 666. Many independent assemblies were formed, which gradually coalesced into a network that became known as the Open Brethren. [25] The Stewards' Foundation, established in 1955, lends money to Brethren assemblies, institutions, workers, and missionaries.[26]. Some broke the rules, sneaking to the neighbours to watch TV, stayed up drinking Saturday nights and showed up at Sunday's 6am prayer meeting with a thick tongue and splitting headache. 16, 2006. ApologeticsIndex.org is published by Anton Hein together with his wife, Janet, and the Apologetics Index team. Elusive Exclusive Brethren [Transcript] of the Background Briefing broadcast by ABC Radio National (Australia) on Apr. It was a surreal transition. There has been much speculation as to why the website disappeared. * Firms clustered in around 40 towns and cities, mostly provincial centres Video first published in 2015. After all, I had been sent to Sydney from New Zealand so my sexuality could be suppressed, not indulged. "Gospel Chapels" tend to be conservative; "Gospel Halls" even more so. Rob McLean, who was excommunicated from the church over a decade ago, said for many older Brethren, the commercial control of the church was history repeating itself. He was sympathetic to my plight but made clear there was no place for gay people, warning me "never accept yourself for who you are". Obviously I wasn't a good Brethren girl, but back then I'd never have dreamt of leaving." Rob McLean questions the Exclusive Brethren beliefs and practices that led to his ejection from the group. Exclusive Brethren an evil, corrupt cult, court told Kevin Rudd allows secret talks with 'cult' Brethren's Qld schools gain $3m Inside the Brethren lobby horse Member of sect stalked women Exclusive access for anti-gay cult Exclusive Brethren school given $1m state grants Brethren schools net $18m funding No university for Exclusive Brethren kids And representations of Brethren women as oppressed are "rubbish. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. Based on more than two years of research, this comprehensive study uncovers the lesser-known facts behind one of historys most enigmatic and influential Christian sects. Most of the jokes went over my head. []. "I got on very well with my father, and I was never there in the years you want to be there, when they get old and you want to do their lawns." The BBC website listed the following rules for Exclusive Brethren: they cannot go to university, have televisions or radios, visit cinemas or the theatre, read newspapers or fiction, use computers, own mobile phones, vote in elections, serve in the armed forces or join any group that includes people outside the Brethren. I was with other young people from the church and couldn't risk being found out. A recent relationship breakup felt similarly traumatic but through it all I repeated my mantra: "I survived leaving the Brethren, I can survive this, too." [32], GC3 is an umbrella organisation encompassing three institutions: Global Connections in Mission (GCiM), which supports 150 missionaries abroad as well as almost 100 evangelists in New Zealand,[3] GC Assist, an "operations trust" within GC3 which runs, among other projects, Headspace, a one-year program for school leavers,[33] and GC Aid, a humanitarian NGO.[34]. no member of the group will speak, work or eat with them. Remembers Adrian: "Once you were out, you started to question it." nd to my brethren in the various connections resulting from the 1959 and 1970 crises, who seek to walk in the light and in truth. The man, who has name suppression, was being considered for parolelast week. I had a whole drawer of Richard Allan and Liberty Silk scarves." What's behind it all will come out in time. Those who break the rules can be punished by being banned from worship meetings and ostracised by members of their own family and other Exclusives who withdraw from such a person. Assemblies affirming a continualist position (that all gifts of the Holy Spirit are operating today) include Street City Church in Wellington,[18] Life Church, Manurewa in Auckland,[19] Tasman Church and Hope Community Church in Nelson. Some post-1959 ministry had already been included, and this practice will be continued. In April 2009, finally ready to make my move, I called a meeting with the priests and told them I was leaving the Exclusive Brethren. This Sydney-based "global consultancy group" claims to provide "services and advice" to about 3000 Brethren-owned businesses in 19 countries, with a combined revenue of more than $12.6 billion NZD. []. They say people stay in fellowship because of ignorance, fear, family and finances. It's the same in 40 towns around the country, from Gisborne to Cust. [5], The history of the Brethren movement in New Zealand is unusual in that the schism between the Exclusive Brethren and the Open Brethren effectively occurred much later than elsewhere. John Hales was eventually accepted back into the church and became its global leader - but the commercial system was not revived until after his death when his son, Bruce Hales, took over. These days I'm back at TV3, working as a producer on The AM Show. Nothing will ever be as bad as escaping my sect upbringing. Television is a strange thing. Afterthe case had concluded, it's understood Stewart was ostracised by members of the church. Says Diana: "To this day my parents are heartbroken, because they can't have anything to do with us. They were used as cash-cows by their leaders. Enter your email address to subscribe. It was a bright spring day when I got one final phone call from a priest. I feel sorry for my kids and my parents. I had no plans, and nowhere to go. The event, named "Game Plan 2016" was held at Auckland's Vector Arena and cost $2415 to attend both days Hansen and Apiata spoke. It was an ill-advised attempt at escape. He has been a friend of mine. Three people died and six others were injured in the crash. If they leave the church, they lose their livelihoods - many former Brethren claim they were forced to sign over their own companies to relatives. Meanwhile, the political storm around the Exclusive Brethren intensifies. Brethren families as well as businesses are also encouraged to buy goods and services from companies which give cash back to UBT and the National Assistance Fund, including petrol and groceries. I've kept in touch so the kids know them. This is a list of individuals who were part of the Open Brethren movement in New Zealand for at least a part of their lives. Complete rejection, and uncritical acceptance, of this movement are both minority positions among New Zealand Brethren today. Please keep out of jail," Hales told followers. A measure of their influence - and the working tolerance they've won - is the wariness locals show about saying anything bad of them. I left Hong Kong on October 31 last year, the 10-year anniversary of my final excommunication from the Exclusive Brethren. It's understood he was allowed back into the church after his sentence finished. Then they can claim that as a deduction in their accounts and reduce their tax liability at the end of the day. In another case, Nelson man Clive Petrie was "withdrawn from" by the church after he was convicted of thehistoric sexual abuse of three young girlsin 2009, according to the former member. I wrote to Bruce Hales thanking him for his help, imparting the good news that I had overcome my sinful feelings. Mum had a honey-coloured guitar. You will receive notifications of new posts by email. This relates to the Open Brethren, an entirely different organisation and one which has no connection whatever to the Exclusive Brethren apart from the 1828 founder. I squirmed with embarrassment watching his fresh inexperience, realising how I myself must have seemed equally wet behind the ears. I watched TV news in wonder, and laughed as a current affairs reporter challenged a scam artist he claimed to be calling from England, but was unable to name any of the Queen's four children. Rob told Steve Cannane that the exclusive brethren talking about the greens destroying the social fabric was the ultimate in hypocrisy. He wrote a prescription for Cyprostat, a hormonal suppressant usually reserved for sex offenders and prostate cancer patients. Like many other movements that came to be regarded as sectarian, the Brethren began with a profound and deeply anti-sectarian sentiment, and they still reject the designation sect. "They tend to spend their lives trying to get around rules while trying to keep their noses clean." The leader of the church has overall power over members of the sect. The medication left me lethargic and unhappy and I stopped taking it after a few weeks, although I had enough repeats on the prescription to last for a year. "We had to go to business meetings, paid thousands of dollars to go to business meetings all round New Zealand. They told us that non-members were being controlled by Satan via. [8], The slow pace of communication between the British Isles and the far-flung colony of New Zealand allowed Deck to operate more or less independently. They weren't doing much; just watching the world go past from their vantage point at one of the many watering holes along Sydney's Darling Harbour. Later, when I called in to pick up some extra things, I saw my 9-year-old sister. Photo: RNZ. "That's news to me. Women must wear their hair long and down, and headscarves in public. Members marry other members. Picture / Doug Sherring, Dargaville couldn't be further from the Beehive, where revelations of Exclusive Brethren political lobbying and espionage are fuelling Parliament's running dog-fight. Foster Crane, a missionary to Fiji, closed ranks to oppose what they stood for. They're highly regarded in business circles. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); The Exclusive Brethren movement is an extremist branch or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. Massey religious history expert Peter Lineham believes the political campaigns are part of a masterplan orchestrated by the powerful, rich Sydney-based world leader Bruce Hales, implemented here by a select group of Brethren businessmen. The international community is run by the "Man of God", who has absolute power to dictate the church's rules. We urge you to wait. A happy Craig as a baby on his dad's lap at the piano. This week the New Zealand Presbyterian Church voted to ban anyone in a sexual relationship outside marriage from its leadership roles (though 35 per cent voted against the ban). "It's a round circle scheme - they are using their businesses to pay 'donations' back to their own church and then they are claiming that back as a tax deductible expense.". Rob McLean said he believed making money should not be the primary goal of an organisation calling itself a church. These confessions came to a head when one day, feeling completely broken, I finally confessed to being gay. If they do not, they are banned from worship or are isolated from family and only allowed to see particular church members until the ordained priests decide that God has forgiven the "sinner". "They apologised for the way they'd been treating us. Jeff Wearmouth, whose son James was killed in the June 2016 crash which Stewart was convicted for,said he was surprised to hear Stewart had been 'shut up'. Despite the claim that Plymouth Brethren Christian Church is the historic name (http://www.plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org/) it is an entirely new invention. The early Brethren believed that, by separating from what they regarded as the unwarranted and unlegitimated system that was represented by the organization of churches, they possessed an adequate basis for the unity of all properly motivated Christians. But eventually the constant monitoring by other Brethren and having to account for their actions got too much. This site rightly bills itself as the [p]remier resource for their origin, progress and testimony 1827-1959 on. He says, "We think women have a major role: to be a Godly influence on their husbands and families. "We had to cover up things that weren't bad." The leader of the church has absolute power to appoint the priests, resolve breaches of the rules, approve marriages and decide on punishments. If they leave, or are expelled from the Brethren, they have to give up their jobs as well as their family and their home. Brethren leaders throughout New Zealand unanimously rejected the Charismatic movement in 1964, and decided that the assembly at Te Papapa, Mangere, which had endorsed the view that all spiritual gifts were operating today, would no longer be "recognized" as a Brethren assembly. This examination delves deeper into the groups past, revealing the Brethrens 19th-century origins in the United Kingdom, their fractious history, their extraordinary use of scripture to control members and dissidents, and their lucrative business and financial arrangements. Until then my transgressions had been minor offences that could be excused away; forgiven, with a warning not to repeat my mistakes. It was exhausting, especially for families with young children, but we heard repeatedly how we were the "chosen ones", members of a spiritual elite carving out a place for God on Earth, destined for special reward when we got to heaven. You'll find most of them are really happy in their role." "[14], Signs of a thaw in attitudes began to appear in the late 1970s. There'll be a dinner and dance, a "mystery day" and lots of socialising - "certainly not religious, just a fun weekend". The Exclusive Brethren member was among a delegation sent to the United States in the 1980s to meet that farmer, James Symington, who despite losing his sight and both legs to diabetes, held onto his position as global leader of the Brethren until his death. Former members of the Exclusive Brethren allege the secretive sect is breaking up families, putting members in isolation and attacking their livelihoods in order to maintain control. As well as forcing Brethren businesses to purchase locked-down computers, phones and IT services, UBT also charged "consultancy fees", which could amount to hundreds of thousands of dollars, and even started taking controlling stakes in profitable companies through a venture called Vision Accelerator. I saw a GP for a second opinion; a white-haired doctor who brusquely imparted there was nothing wrong with me, and "your emotions are a completely normal response to an extreme situation". After the UK Charity Commissions refusal to grant Charity Status to the Exclusive Brethren, in the summer of 2012, an observer provided a series of explanatory comments regarding that decision: 2.10 Misleading information: whilst it is of course legitimate to change a name and reconstruct a website, it should not be done in such a way as to make it appear that it involves an entirely different organisation. [6] Although he was associated with the Exclusive Brethren of John Nelson Darby, he decided that the schism that had taken place in 1848 was irrelevant to New Zealand. I drove around Invercargill one heartbreaking afternoon visiting friends, relatives, anyone I cared about, telling them I was leaving the Brethren and this would be the last time we saw each other. [], Members see the head of their church as a servant leader who puts his lives at the disposal of others. He settled in Motueka which is still the religion's New Zealand stronghold. N.B. They were a picture of languid happiness, sitting there in the sun. It's led to some amazing experiences, and a few hair-raising ones to boot. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. Within days the Brethren tracked me down in Christchurch and appealed for my return. Members marry each other, rarely divorce, and are encouraged to have large families. I knew I was different and chafed against the rules, asking questions and talking back. What later became the GPH Society Limited originated in May 1900 when Edward Whitehead opened the Bible and Tract Depot at Palmerston North,[27] with the purpose of publishing Christian literature to serve primarily the Brethren movement in New Zealand, but also the wider Christian community in both New Zealand and Australia. He also allowed the New Zealand assemblies a degree of congregational autonomy that was unknown among the Exclusives in the British Isles. Sydney marked a new chapter. And in other parts of the country, I was known for being against UBT, so that was where I felt the pressure.". Most casual observers would say I've moved on. 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"The thing I find disturbing is these are businesses, so their insurance premiums are tax deductible and on top of that they also claim back the GST - so I view it almost like a legalised form of money laundering. I had further meetings with Bruce Hales, and he told me to consult a Brethren doctor to receive treatment for my "condition". The scene of a crash in which three members of the Exclusive Brethren church died in Baylys Coast Rd, Northland in June in 2016. Even their churches are typically windowless. The schools teach around 1000 year 7-12 students, and get glowing ERO reports. The Exclusive Brethren practice the doctrine of separation: they eat, sleep and live apart from the world, except when doing business with 'worldly' people. The link leads to an archived version of the website. Falling into journalism was an astonishing stroke of luck. I was told I was rebellious and had a problem with authority. "It's like the inside of a golf ball in there, everything is all tied together, with a very centralised structure and power dynamic.". Brethren and their companies are encouraged to buy their supplies, groceries, petrol, internet, insurance - the whole range of goods and services - from companies that give cash back to the church through a range of kickback arrangements. A strong family-centred way of life ensures a further cocoon from the world. Photos come down from the wall and you disappear from Brethren lists, never to be spoken of again, except in hushed tones as a warning to others. The couple maintain a faith in God but don't go to any church. I think there's a little bit of scaremongering going on. Growing up in the Exclusive Brethren meant missing out on a lot of things other children took for granted. The Exclusive Brethren who separated from the Open Brethren in 1848 and adhere to a rigid code of . Sarah and I got caught up in a media scrum with the Kardashian family while filming an unrelated story in Yerevan, and joked to local Armenian reporters that we'd come all the way from New Zealand to see Kim and Kanye. Sorrow overthe past and humility in the present may be the keystones to those many groups to visit one anothers meetings and to see how little stands between them and to share meetings in the spirit of oneness not implied superiority. In New Zealand there are at present at least 6,000 Exclusive Brethren, which is about three times their estimated numbers in 2006, although exact figures are not . Members of Exclusive Brethren churches are expected to be totally loyal to the leader of the Exclusive Brethren. The Exclusive Brethren church has been using the controversial private investigators Thompson and Clark to spy on former members of the church. The Brethren movement began in Dublin in the 1820s, and split into the Open and Exclusive Brethren in the 1840s. Divorce is rare. Charities researcher Michael Gousmett said it appeared Brethren businesses were being used to generate donations, which also reduced the amount of tax paid by those companies. Most work in Exclusive Brethren businesses, so leaving means losing their job. Such clandestine adventures frequently led to feelings of guilt and shame, and I regularly confessed my so-called sins to the Brethren "priests" as a teenager. So that's a very, very unsatisfactory situation for Bruce Hales.". They cannot form friendships, or eat with people outside the church -- who are known as "worldlies". Numerous questions are explored, such as What exactly was their interest in politics? However, he baulked at paying hundreds of dollars a month to join UBT for "business advice" he did not have time to read or services he did not need. [7] Unlike Darby, he did not believe in maintaining insularity from non-Brethren Christians, and preached in churches of many denominations. Now in their early 40s with four children and a playground business, the couple had been married four years and already had two children when they left. "That's not the role the church should play.". Within two years I moved from never having watched TV, to working in a TV newsroom. In addition to the kickbacks, Brethren-owned businesses also move a percentage of their profits into trusts or directly to the National Assistance Fund. The Exclusive founder, John Nelson Darby, believed the secular world was corrupt and the way for believers to obey God was to keep to themselves. The Exclusive Brethren are a religious group who forbids their members from voting but are taking out ads in the Tasmanian newspapers telling non believers how to vote. 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The leader is regarded as a person of inherent moral power, following in the tradition of the leaders of the past and upholding their teaching in such a way as to lift the membership out of the world of wickedness. The secretive, cult-like church says its members volunteer their time to contribute to society, but an RNZ investigation has found hundreds of thousands of dollars were sent every year to a Sydney. Our social lives were bound up with other sect members and, by the time I reached my teens, my peers and I were well and truly enmeshed. This is often seen as one of many signs that the line of demarcation between Brethren assemblies and other independent Evangelical churches is becoming blurred a situation that some Brethren welcome, and some do not. Members marry other members. 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